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Has life been hard to you lately? It’s been so for me & some of my close friends/clients

I've noticed a pattern that can help you out as it did for me:

Each season can either give you 2 things: Opportunities or Lessons.

It would be unwise to go extremely hard when the season is calling upon you to be more gentle.

It would be unwise to start reflecting when the season is calling upon you to start D O I N G M O R E.

The key is to ride the wave. Not try to swim towards it.

When life gets tough, you get tougher. When life gives you its fruits, you make smoothies.

So why should we listen to the season?

Because the more you respect the season, the more it will respect you

But you may be thinking it's very difficult in capitalism especially because you have to make rent every single month and you have to pay for food and you're survival.

You're right - This is why everyone in society is so wrapped up in being busy spinning their wheels and getting nowhere. Always in their masculine energy never enough time for their feminine energy to heal.

That's why I've been creating my new economic system called Compassionism to fix this issue at a societal scale.

But until this happens I can only give you advice at the individual level.

And If I, others, and everyone who has lived in worse-off economic systems in the past can still find happiness & success, it means it’s still possible for you to be posimistic balanced in capitalism today.

And here’s how…

1. Know what season you're in (masc or fem)

Signs you are in a masculine season:

• Nothing seems to be going your way
• The inbound leads/traffic is slowing down
• The crops outside are dry (literally)
• Problems Problems Problems just keep on piling all of a sudden out of nowhere (it may seem like it’s all random but it could be the consequences from our actions in the past that are now finally getting to us - we all experience this at one point, you’re not alone)
• Common characteristics: cold, alone, solitude, reflection, hibernation, shedding the old,

Signs you're in a feminine season:

• Luck plays in your favor - everything seems to be going your way
• Multiple opportunities start coming your way without you having changed anything
• You see others start to experience an abundance, luck, more happiness in the air
• Your fruits are peaking (Income, Traffic, leads, new people met, etc)

Look to nature: Live in alignment with the natural environment around you.

When it’s a masculine season- Strengthen your roots

When it’s a feminine season - Celebrate your fruits

If the leaves are shedding on trees then it's a sign that your peak advantages have run their course and it’s time to cut the fat, cut the expenses, cut the things that don’t serve you anymore - time to get lean.

Try to find the 1 thing the season is trying to give you (a lesson, an opportunity) but measure success by picking up on these experiences.

2. Become fully aware of your surroundings

Be aware of the coincidences you see happening in your life.

Coincidences are a sign of God/Source/Universe working for you.

Even when the coincidences are not in your ego's favor.

3. Look for recurring clues and patterns

If it happens once, its no big deal but if it happens twice it’s a sign.

Pay close attention to everything. No matter the season.

This is how I was able to spot opportunities that landed me my highest-paying clients & largest months in terms of social media metrics.

But to get up to that point it was a sequence of recurring patterns that I decided to pay attention to and start living my life in alignment with that trail that led me to where we are now.

Then Listen, Ask for help, Take action, and do what season wants you to do.

4. Log all seasons - log the wins, the type of season it was, and document as much info as you can to prepare for the next seasons

You can’t control what season it is nor what it has in store for you, all you can do is log every detail of what’s happening to better prepare you to maximize the fruits of the future seasons.

Keeping a daily journal, planner, and gallery storage is critical

A Journal. - so you can make sense of all the chaos in your mind. To make the illogical logical. This is the best form of self-therapy You can give yourself.

You don't know the solutions if you cant articulate the problem.

My process goes something along the lines of just brain dumping everything on my mind whatever I'm thinking whether it's negative or positive I allow myself this space to just dump whatever's on my mind and then fully put it to pen the paper or thumb to screen.

Then once I'm finished I pretend like I'm a third-person close friend and I act like what I just wrote is coming from someone else's perspective as someone who needs help.

And my job now is to give this person advice about their problems they’ll just listed out. Acting like a positive role model to this person in need. Giving unconditionally loving solutions. It's very important to shower yourself with unconditional love not with conditional love right now. Because you're emotionally vulnerable or sensitive. What you need right now is someone to love you. Pure forms of feminine love which include love care affection healing repairing purification etc. these forms of love will then make you emotionally neutral. When you're emotionally neutral, then you can give yourself forms of masculine love / tough love.

A Planner - To logically structure a plan to start improving your life. Used during masculine seasons to make the process of achieving as much as possible as efficiently as possible. Used during feminine seasons to keep your mind in order but expect to have way fewer tasks listed out

A Media Storage System - I have a private daily vlog no one sees. I use TikTok’s auto edit feature to sort all the media from the day before with the song that was looping in my mind into a <30 sec video. If you want to replicate this system, all you need is to make a secret tiktok (or IG) account, make it private, spend 10min every morning on the toilet adding all the media to your drafts then later in the day editing, posting it secretly, and done. repeat daily. Experience the greatest sense of joy 80 years later when you literally are able to replay your life back in the form of a movie. No amount of money can top this feeling off. It’s priceless. So don’t get lazy with this habit and find the best groove that best suits you :D

5. Lastly, enjoy it - the experience of suffering and pain is a gift in itself (The Ability To FEEEEL)

The ability to feel suffering and pain and trials and error and absolute hell on earth is itself a gift.

Because your true source self outside of your human ego self cannot experience this.

God/Source NEEDS your hands your ears your eyes your pain receptors your lungs your body to experience the creations around you.

Since we live in a duality world if there is good there has to be the bad. Pain and pleasure. Ups and downs. Masculine months and feminine months. Don't forget it.

Even when I'm at my lowest downs in the rock bottom masculine seasons crying on the floor listening to Amor Eterno by Roccio on repeat I still wouldn't trade it for anything better In that moment.

Because crying as hard as you can to the point where you start to feel lightheaded struggling to breathe from the feeling of illusory betrayal and trials that God has given you reminds you of your mortality. Your existence. Plus, after a good crying session, you genuinely feel a lot better. Nothing else is weighing you down. What you thought beforehand that crying was useless and a waste of time - afterward you realize it was just you living in your own head.

Keep in mind, that when you surrender to source, you know that you won’t only have feminine happy abundance seasons. Wisdom is knowing that life goes in cycles. You WILL still have feminine AND masculine months. But now you'll have a greater awareness of how to better live according to what the season has in store for you. To learn to live and appreciate EVERY season. Fully immersed into the dance of the feminine months and fully immersed in reconnecting to your neglected areas of peace within in you during the masculine months.

So keep this in mind if you are currently experiencing a masculine season.

Your friend in the masculine season,

Elvis